Intimacy…
There’s a reason why he drinks. It gives him connection. He gets to feel something good.
He might not know it, yet.
It feels good. Fun. Alive.
Let go and unwind.
But does he know he can find that with you? It’s scary. He hasn’t done it like that before. It’s easier with the booze.
Deeper connection.
Love. Intimacy.
It would take him to his edge to meet a new part of himself. In a way he doesn’t know is available to him, yet.
Tend to the sweet child within. He needed that drink to feel loved and safe. Until he finds a new way.
In his heart.
And.
With you.
Together, it’s ok.
You are each other’s remedy.
It’s why you are together.
Love the beautiful mess of it all.
The magic is in the breakdown to breakthrough.