YOU…

Clients say to me all the time…

‘but what if I am the only one doing the work and he wont come?

So it’s like this…

YOU can make all the different, just by focussing on yourself.

Here is why…

Imagine you give your lover a list of the things you really wanted. You said it like it was… what would you write? Write a little love note now in your minds eye… dot point the things if he invited you to get what you want…. List it.

Lets say…. on the list are things like;

Spend more time with me.

Touch me more, like this…

Laugh, talk and have fun together.

Worship me like your Queen.

Help out around the house.

What’s on your list?

So imagine that you gave it to him now… and he begun to give you those things… How would you receive it?

Would you do it gladly and openly?

Would you whinge, shame and complain?

Would you receive his touch and surrender to pleasure?

Would you be putting yourself down silently in your mind?

Would you try control the situation?

Would you be off making a shopping list in your head?

Would you be present and look into his eyes?

Would you passionately receive him and want him too?

Would you shut down and block his helpfulness?

So where is your work?

Is it in asking?

Is it in receiving?

Is it in opening?

Is it in letting go?

I found in my own personal experience, the more I worked on myself, my blocks to pleasure and joy, my disconnect and control, it made it so much easier for him just to get on board and to love me.

There are great rewards to be experienced when you have couples sessions, and simply begin where you can, rather than think you cant do anything...