Control…

When we give up control… loosen our grip from holding on so tightly… it creates a weird space that feels uncertain… its nervous… and hard to navigate. An unknown land.

So, what is the solution?

Often, I hear from clients…. I don’t want to be so controlling. I want to loosen up, enjoy life more, be more flowing and easy going. I remember a time in my life too when this was my main goal – ‘to be more easy going’. Which means, letting go of control.

When you have been holding onto everything so tightly… it’s hard to let go. We hold on for dear life to what we know, even though it suffocates us. And kills our innate feminine flow.

So, the trick is… to observe yourself in how you hold on so tightly. And what is costs you being so controlling. Witness yourself doing control.

Where and how do you let your control freak run the show?

Then start to loosen your grip.

Just go… f**K it… I’m going to test this out.

Notice the weird space it creates.

Notice how it feels.

It’s okay, its normal.

Again.. observe yourself.

If you have been hunting and pursuing the things you want in life… we actually chase it away…

So, when you give up the hunt, it begins to create a space where the magic can come and find you instead… without the pressure.

The first step to any ‘change in behaviour / breaking old habits’… is observe yourself doing the thing you don’t like. Then you have a choice… a new way you might like to move forward.

How does control suffocate you?

How can you end the hunt and hold yourself steady in the new land of inner freedom and feminine flow?

How can you find safety within to enjoy life more?

How does being the Alpha/Martyr exhaust you?

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